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Ten Reasons For Concealment Of "Hidden Rules" After 80'S Marriage

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First, men and women together are hypocritical.

I do not know in the past, in the past, they used to get married and nurture their feelings. Later, as time went on, the phenomenon became worse. However, after many observations, the phenomenon seemed to have an erection impulse. Both men and women did not express their inner feelings to each other. Instead, they had to express their love with a false hypocrisy.

Two, just to cover up the hope of parents.

More and more parents expect unmarried comrades to marry while young, but more and more of them are forced to put down their marriage by pressing reality. In order to make a living, for more beautiful things, they choose not to fall in love, but also do not contact with marriage. Therefore, they present the phenomenon of "paying rent boyfriend" and "hiring their girlfriends" in the past years. The same phenomenon exists in marriage, that is, "fake marriage".

Three. Complete parents Cause Gifts on

In the past, women's marriage seemed to be just a bargaining chip, but can it really make a woman no longer like a steelyard? Many parents are bold in designing marriage for their children in the light of the noble principles of the future, but they just become a stumbling block on the road to happiness. They have no right to fall in love. They can only be placed in a grand marriage hall as a bargaining chip.

Four, men and women exist for each other.

Men find women and women find men. In addition to true love, there may be another purpose. Maybe the man has taken a fancy to the lady in the woman's house, or the woman is looking for a man. While men and women have this kind of game, they ignore that they have sold themselves in marriage and are selling cheap.

Five, love betrays money and power.

Chinese marriage has probably not been divorced from this reality since ancient times. I have always been wondering whether the past official system has caused all this. Why do we have to get married? This marriage must be very happy. When love is betrayed to gold money and power, love has become parasitic like the rotten fruit.

Six, the big position of the house and the car station.

Nowadays, although there are cars and houses and newspaper advertisements, most of the men have introduced their own houses and cars. When they are placed in the present generation, it is not necessarily rare to have a house or a car. The house is a villa with a minimum of four circles. Otherwise, people who come in and out will feel bad about it.

Seven, forced to be too rigid.

Many people nowadays are being told by their parents and whoever marries them. If they are not married, they will break the relationship and take these threats to fear that their children will be divorced from their dependence. Many marriages are formed under this powerful urge, but such marriages will eventually be happy.

Eight. marry The long cherished wish is scattered.

In line with the principle of "marriage phobia", it may be just to challenge the excitement of first marriage, perhaps just to prove that it can end the boundary. Marriage has become a fashion among more young people. Moreover, marriage can solve life and psychological stress and depression at many times, and to a large extent prevents the reality from being divorced from reality.

Nine, get a red edition on Wednesday, receive green edition on Friday.

Nowadays, young people are not afraid of getting married because divorce is not a matter of losing people, just like a lot of strange things. So they are in the spirit of trial marriage challenging love skills, technology, learning love this treasure. So there is a trend of "three red collar Friday leading to green edition". I wonder how many times this generation of young people will try to get married before they grow up.

Ten, no appearance, no car, no room, no crab {page_break}

I want to say that "turtle" is afraid that people say I imitate, so simply say crab. Is it really a good fruit for young people to look for objects in the fashion trend principles and find out who they are entering?

Is love a marriage or something else?

　　 Marriage There are also seven notices.

1 less smug. Do not love your people in front of you and pretend to be saints (Saint), you are husband and wife, not outsiders, outside the cool can be, home to have a personal sample, do not smelly.

In the long run, your wife (husband) is far away from you. Is there any love?

2, we must talk more about the economy. Although married and living together, don't take the money in your wallet as your own money. Money is money. Love is love. Does she give you all your wages? Love is too superficial. It is not the money of the family, who is husband or wife, of course we must control, we must discuss and manage, who will manage the money to whom. In those days, it is not easy for anyone to earn some money in the economic crisis. If you do not want to manage your money, you will have to rush to do it. Hey, hey, the couple can quarrel.

3, be diligent. After 80 people have a common disease, that is, lazy, some elder brothers and sisters lazy to grow maggots on their body, so there is no way, since they live together, please be diligent. Do not do hegemonism at home, do nothing by yourself, rely on each other, even say: you do not do so and you do not love me. Don't you talk nonsense? Love you must help you wash and cook. Then you might as well invite a cook or a laundry worker to keep you in love.

4 don't nag. Nagging is something that people who get married in the last century often do. After 80 years of marriage in twenty-first Century, don't learn this fine tradition. It's not enough to get angry and lose your eyes every day. You must come back with a little bit of nagging and no bother to bother. If we do not directly affect the quality of life, this is something we do not want to see.

5 speak with scruples. Don't think that you can say anything when you get married. Some words can not be said, or you'd better not say, for example, when so many people chased me, how did I see you? Wait, wait a minute. Fool, if you look at a loser, what is your own? If you get too long, you can't even make up for it, then you will be finished.

6 don't eat old. What's the most popular in twenty-first Century? Ha ha, this is something that China has never heard of for thousands of years. If Kong Lao Zi knows something about Jiuquan, I am afraid I should also blow his nose and stare at the ground. Fashion is popular. I don't want to learn it. Chairman Mao said it's good. Do it yourself. The young couple have hands and feet, but they rely on the old people to feed them. When you go out, you can cross the street by two, and everyone shouting.

7, we must be industrious and thrifty. People born in the 1980s are like babies at home. Their parents hold their hands in fear of flying. They are afraid of being infected in their mouths. They are all like babies and lumps. They do not know how hard money comes when they have not eaten bitterness. Especially after working, it is more wasteful to spend their money, but not at all. It is often the big rich at the beginning of the month. At the end of the month, they are poor. They tell their brothers here that they should be thrifty, otherwise they will find themselves without any money when they encounter big things. Well, you two do not have any quarrel. {page_break}

Observe the "three disciplines"

The first is not to interfere in the freedom of the other party.

Born in the 1980s after the reform and opening up, so in their lives in addition to the acceptance of traditional Chinese ideas, but also absorbed part of freedom, equality and democracy, reflected in the marriage relationship, that is, do not interfere in the freedom of the other party.

Yes, two people enter the marriage hall by love. But marriage does not mean that the other party is your private property. The other party is the first person, and has basic human rights and freedoms. If you interfere with the other party's freedom of making friends without permission, it will cause the opposite party's disgust. Maybe two times a day may not matter, but if you always do this, you are ready to collect the corpse for love. Maybe after that, the other person will live with you under an eaves, but it's more because life is not because love is with you. In fact, as long as the other side still loves you and has not done anything like cheating you, why should you interfere with the freedom of others?

The second must make mistakes and forgive when making mistakes.

No man can be a saint, no one is absolutely right in this world. This is especially true of two couples living together. Every day, trivial matters such as Chai, sauce, vinegar, oil and salt tea will make minor mistakes. At this time, the other party should be good at making mistakes and admit mistakes when making mistakes. Don't always listen to what the older generation said. Don't bow to her, or you'll be unhappy later. If you are always generous with yourself and strict with the law people, you will make mistakes and refuse to acknowledge your life. Do not remember that the other party turned a little bit wrong and you read it every day, for fear that the other side would not know you were wrong. That's too long. The other Party promised not to enter the house.

Third, don't let the other person feel lonely.

Most of the children born in the 1980s are only children. For the only child, they grew up in the forest of reinforced concrete. There was no brothers or sisters in the neighborhood, so there was a sense of loneliness in the depths of their hearts. They were afraid of being forgotten and encouraged by the world. Others may calculate, but you, as her (his) favorite person, if he or she is lonely, you don't know where to go, you can't find any ghost, you can't see how much loneliness and helplessness in her heart. So, never let the person who loves you be lonely, even if there is something, let him (her) know that you remember him (her).